Over the last few months my daughter has been asking many questions as she gets ready to leave the youth mental health care system and enter into the adult system. Something we both are looking at with fear. Thankfully she has a mom who has had an interest in this field for decades and knows how to advocate for her and our family or she may be left behind to deal with her illnesses on her own.
In her questions and my research I have come to realize that very little is being done to look at where the holes are in mental health care. I have uses my resources to look for clinical trials, case studies and action plans and I must say I am deeply saddened at what I have found. I am also afraid to admit I have had to use my own daughter as a patient in many trail and error cases just to fid things that work for her and what don't work for her. From requesting tests to the use of vitamins and supplements, and also looking at sleep patterns and stress levels. Let me say this, doing this has raised more question then there are answers for out there.
Below you will read a letter that Bailey and I have been working on that once finished will be making its way to MLAs and MPs throughout Canada as well as doctors because we all deserve answers and we all deserve the care we need to be healthy in every way. Some have said I need to come off less angry BUT these holes and lack of protocol cost me a daughter so I am allowed to be angry. Some say it is long, well there is no short answer to starting to get things together so we can all get help.
I do ask you to please give feedback if you like or if you think more needs to be said or eve if you have questions! Just email me at morgansmission13@gmail.com with them and I promise I will get back to you <3
So here it is!
Society is crying for more
funding for mental health but nobody is saying where that funding needs to go.
Why? Because they don’t know where the problems are because nobody is bothering
to ask those who have and are dealing with mental and emotion illness.
Everyone is guessing where
the funding should be and nothing is changing. Is the problem lack of beds? Is
it lack of available counsellors, psychologist or psychiatrists? Or is it the
fact that many who are prescribed medication are not followed to be sure the
dose and prescription is right for the patient? Or is it people are not aware
of the resources in their area? Are people who see our youth missing signs
because they don’t have the education and training needed to see them? Or is it
still that so many are embarrassed to talk about their problems? What about
those who feel our youth are only playing the system so they don’t need to face
reality? These are all questions that need to have answers! How are we able to
implement regulations and policies when nobody is looking at the bigger
picture?!
We are crying for more
funding but where should it be going? Nobody seems to have an answer and nobody
seems to want to put the work in to figure it out! This is not just a health
care issue, this is also an educational and social development issue and its
time they worked together to start figuring out where this broken system is
failing those who need it the most. Awareness is only going to go so far in
changing the mental health care system. We need to have studies done to see
where and what is not working and also see what people are struggling with.
This can not be done by those who have no idea what is happening, it has to be
done by those who have been in this storm and have witnessed first hand the
troubles and losses. We need to question the youth and parents of school aged
children to see what their stressors are, what problems they are facing and
what issues they are having getting the care and treatment they need. Then fix
it! We need to look at inquests and see where the system failed them and fix
it! We need to stop allowing media to report poorly when incidents happen to
those with mental illness. We need to change how referrals are handled so that
people are not getting lost in the shuffle. We need to stop the blame and
judging for those who work in high stress jobs who struggle and need someone to
talk to! In fact in jobs where people are seeing things that can scar them
(military, first responders, health care workers etc) we should be encouraging
them to see and talk to someone on a regular basis just to do mental and
emotional wellness checks and not be made to feel they will loss their job
because they are in fact human with human emotions!
while most areas have
excelled in research and development, the area of mental health has not. If
fact it continues to get worse. With more and more people speaking out and
seeking help for themselves and loved ones this area of health care has been
sorely lacking. There are so many cases where people are waiting months and
even in some cases over a year for treatment, there are cases where people are
scared to even seek treatment because they fear losing their jobs, and there
are people losing loved ones to suicide because the wait times for treatment is
too long or the system is failing them. So why are these areas not being looked
at? Why are these problems still happening when funding is being given and so
many organizations are raising funds for mental health care? Where is the
funding actually going and what problems are being solved with it when the
number of people waiting for treatment and care is increasing and the number of
suicides each year is rising?
We are all yelling and
screaming for more funding but where is the funding actually going? Why are we
not hearing about mental health centres being built, more beds in psychiatric
wards, research for medications and alternative treatments, or even education
for educators, health care workers and parents??
The studies that have been
done that have shown progress to work for those with mental illnesses and
behavioural disorders are not becoming common practice. Why are we taking more
and more from schools that show to help our youth? Classes like gym, art, music
and school sports are important to our youth. They increase physical activity
and promote problem solving skills, communication and conflict resolution, but
yet these classes are becoming electives and not mandatory. Teens are losing
out on the possibility of participating in sports due to cost increases and
lack of funding to help those who need it. Taking sports and other art programs
from youth puts them at risk for other behaviours that may cause an increase in
depression, drug use and criminal behaviour. Teens deserve the right to play
sports, have music and art programs to further explore things that could make
them feel better raising their self esteem and finding a like minded group of
friends.
In order to find the answers to these
problems and questions action needs to take place.
1. Inquests into suicides need to happen
to find where the system is failing those with mental illness.
2. Questionnaires need to be given to
teens and their parents in schools to see where the high stress areas are and
also to find those who are struggling with mental illness.
3. Pre-testing when youth are entering
the school system to ensure that they are starting with a healthy mind and
emotional level and re checks through out their school years.
4. Starting mental and emotional health
education in grade school will also teach our youth how to handle and recognize
problems before they get out of hand.
5. We need to start treating mental
illness like all other physical illnesses and stop separating the two of them
in hospital settings, mentally unstable does mean medically unstable.
6. The need for all family doctors to
have the resources that will allow them to access psychiatrists and counsellors
to get their patient in to someone as soon as possible. They also need a
protocol to follow when dealing with mental illness even those they see all the
time like anxiety and depression.
7. Policies and protocols when dealing
with referrals. Example - They need to be calling and doing another over the
phone assessment once they receive the referral.
8. Incentives for those going into the
mental health field to encourage the growth that is needed to care for these
patients. (They did this in NB when the need for doctors hit the province)
9. Training for those who are front line
workers that work with children and others who are vulnerable or high risk.
10. Blood work and a diet questionnaire
for all those being seen for possible mental or behavioural disorders to
properly rule out a possible deficiency that could be causing the
symptoms.
11. Finding out what interests youth, teens
and adults have that make them happy or feel good. And making sure that these
interests are something they have access to.
12. Protocol and follow ups for new moms
with training to those seeing them or their babies to watch for post partum
depression. So moms don’t feel shame when they struggle with PPD.
This is not just the problem
of one ministry, this is a situation that needs to be dealt with by most
ministries and they need to work together to solve this problem. Education,
health, social development, first nations, and many more on the provincial and
federal levels need to stop arguing and start working together to start fixing
the problem. It is time to stop throwing money into the wind and start finding
the problems that need fixing. Start listening to those of us who have fought
the system and lost loved ones because of the holes that are there. The time to
act is now, with more and more people speaking out about suicides that are
happening in their communities and families the time to listen to them and hear
their stories has never been more critical. So I am asking you please act now
and start doing what needs to be done to find the problems so that funding can
go to where it needs to go and not wasted on promotion and places that are not
making a difference to those who need it most.
Please feel free to share your voice on this, Bailey and I both listen and look for answers and solutions to problems. The time to start looking for the right solutions has to happen now before this epidemic gets even more out of control.